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FALLING IN LOVE

It is mystery when we fell in love.

It is a mystery how it happens. It is mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.

You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do anymore than life out of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body, love is more than the sum of interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift cannot be questioned in its ways.

Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life – the gift of love will come to you in full flower, and you will take hold of it and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.

When this happens to young people, they too often try to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a gift that is freely given and gift that just as freely, moves away. When the fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for it was, then moving on.

They want answers there are no answers. They want to know what s wrong in them that makes the other person no longer love them, or they try to get their lover to change, thinking that if some small things were different, love would bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say if they go far away and start new life together, their love will grow.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrive and gives it away when it comes to you. But if it choose to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, is nothing on you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN IT WILL COME AGAIN.

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There was a fellow lamenting the fact God never spoke to him, “ why doesn’t the good Lord ever send me any messages like he seems to send other people?”  he asked of his friends. “But the Lord does communication with,” assured his buddy. “He communicates with you through your mistakes.”

Mistakes are feedback on how we are doing. Winners make far more mistakes than losers do. That is why they are winners . they are getting more feedback as they continue to try more possibilities. The only trouble with losers is that they regard a mistake as such a big even, while failing to recognize the positive side to making mistakes.

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